The cast of Love Is Blind might regularly bare their souls to each other in the pods, but plenty of dishing takes place in the lounge, too. For Season 3, Nancy and Colleen reveal what really takes place over on the girls’ side.

“My favorite spot to gossip [is the couch],” Colleen tells Nancy in the clip. “Just wrap me in that blanket like a burrito, and I’ll just start spilling the tea. As soon as I’m there, it’s tea central.”

At the very start of the video, Nancy and Colleen agree that there’s a certain secret language used specially for Love Is Blind dating (you’ll need to hear them explain the rules). Then, Nancy explains that one of their friends won a surprise nickname from the men in the early days of filming. Later, we even learn the complicated romantic trigonometry that unfolds as the Season 3 cast race toward their prospective engagements.

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“It was very interesting to find out who was actually feeling each other,” Colleen says. “The breakups started happening,” Nancy adds. “The girls were breaking up with certain guys. Which opened up the doors for those guys to date these other girls. There were a few love triangles.”

And what were the guys thinking while all of this went down? Well, you’ll have to watch the video above for Colleen’s answer.